The Rise of Sharenting: Are Parents Sharing Too Much on Social Media?

3.2 billion people use social media, according to the 2019 Emarsys study. That’s about 42% of the population.

Social media is indeed unstoppable, and with new social media platforms coming up, more people will be sharing their lives over the internet.

Well, what can we expect from an online platform that connects people from all walks of life?

But along with the fun and positive things we get from social networking channels, there are questionable trends that are emerging in the social media space– and no, we’re not talking about the infamous social ice cream licking challenge.

We’re talking about sharenting.

What is Sharenting?

Sharenting (or oversharenting) is the overuse of social media by parents to share content based on their children, such as baby pictures or details of their children’s activities. It’s a combination of two words: parenting and sharing.

5 Signs of Sharenting on Social Media

While sharenting seems harmless, there are consequences from it too. With that, parents should be wary of the following signs:

#1: Posting Photos of the Kid on a Daily Basis

This is the most common sign of being a “sharent”. Parents that do this have tons of photos on their social media feeds, almost about every day. What photos do sharents usually post? You’ll surely expect selfies with their kids, fun moments with their kids, or as simple as their kid’s portrait.

#2: Creating a Social Media Account for their Kid

Imagine this scenario: You stumbled upon an account that uses a toddler as a profile picture? You thought, maybe it’s just a parent using his/her baby’s photo, yet you realize upon checking that it’s the account of the kid. A baby has a social media account–like how?

This is what extreme sharents do. They think posting baby photos on their profile is not enough that they created a social media account for their child, even pretending that they’re the kid, putting captions as if the kid is using the platform.

#3: Sharing Every Moment, Even the Embarrassing Ones

When a parent is busy sharenting, every moment counts. Baby is crying over a lost toy? Yup, share that on the internet. The child is in an unflattering position while sick? That’s gonna be posted.

#4: Joining “Cutest Baby” Social Media Contests

For some reason, this has become a thing. There are parent-centered social networking groups that are inviting parents to post their child’s cutest photos and then pooled online to see which photos will garner the most.

During the early days of this trend, it’s pretty harmless. But today, some parents are taking this seriously: paying minimal fees to join said contests and even asking people on messenger to give a ‘like’ on her child’s selfie.

#5: Phone is Always on Default Camera Mode

Aside from the online signs, you can also check if a parent is a sharent or not by the way they use their phone. Are their phones in the bag or is it always on their hand? During an event, do they let their child play around with other kids or are they making them do photo poses?

Psychology Behind Sharenting: Why Parents Share So Much

baby smiling for the camera

On some cases, sharenting is a form of digital narcissism, but in most cases, here are the reasons why parents share so much on social media:

Parental Pride Due to Increased Social Demands

Because of the digital age, parents, particularly with moms, are now pressured to become better parents. That’s why any achievement that their children get, they’ll post it as soon as possible. They beam with pride as a child’s success also links to their success as a parent.

Means of Maintaining Close Relationships

Parents tend to post photos for their relatives, especially if they have a tight-knit connection with their extended family. It’s also a good conversation starter for friends when they get updated with your family life.

Emotional Support During Stressful Times

Posting their child’s struggles isn’t necessarily to humiliate them. It’s because they want someone to relate to. Being a parent is a stressful 24/7 task, so having someone who’ll be able to support them, even with a simple like or comment, can lessen a parent’s stress.

Maintaining Family Togetherness

Posting a lot of family photos doesn’t necessarily mean that their family life is crumbling– they simply want to establish that sense of togetherness. They want to feel that their family’s stability. For them, posting “happy” family photos help.

Consequences of Sharenting

Everything is good in moderation, so when someone becomes a sharent, it could bring in some trouble for them and for their kids such as:

  • The child could be a victim of Identity Theft.
  • Predators could get their hands on the photos.
  • Conflicts may happen as the kid grows up.
  • Online friends may get annoyed with the photos and unfollow the ‘sharents’.

How to Healthily Share Memories of Kids and Avoid Oversharenting

For parents to avoid the dangers of sharenting, here are the things they can do to share memories of their children without overdoing it.

#1: Think of The Kids

Parents should take a step back and think of their children. They should ask themselves if they are their kids, would they want their photos of crying to be on the internet forever? They should also be aware of their main responsibility as a parent. Their main job is not about to brag their child all the time, but to protect them from any possible harm, whether in real-life or online.

#2: Limit the Social Media Posts

Parents are not obliged to share their children’s life on social media. It wouldn’t hurt to limit their posting

#3: Ask the Kids for Consent

If the kids are at a reasonable age, parents should ask them before posting anything. This will avoid kids getting teased and bullied in school, and this will also bring in a good dynamic between the parents and the child, as compared to parents recklessly posting their child’s photos.

#4: Don’t Make a Social Account for the Child

Let the child decide in the future if he/she wants a social media account.

#5: Create a Group Chat for Relatives

If relatives are requesting for updates, parents can make a group chat on messenger for their relatives instead. They can share photos in there as well as some videos. At least on a group chat, parents can maintain the privacy of their children. But by doing this, they should request the relatives to not share the photos outside the chat.

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References:
Wikipedia | Urban Dictionary | The Conversation | Psychology Today

Your Social Media Habits, According to Your Zodiac Sign

In social media, zodiac signs are somehow always trending. Social platforms are now filled with posts and memes about the stereotypical traits of each zodiac sign: Taurus people are food lovers, Cancers are crybabies, and Leos being showstoppers.

With that being said, we wondered what the stars have to say with our social media habits. Who are the stalkers? The lurkers? The ones who overshare? Who tends to get all the likes?

Your Social Media Habits, According to Your Zodiac Sign

Well, wonder no more as we have here your social media habits, according to your zodiac signs. This came from various sources (see sources below), covering all the possible habits each sign has.

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

Being the first sign of the zodiac, Aries people tend to be self-centered, as they want to be the first in everything. They can be competitive and use social network apps as their virtual trophy case, putting updates about their career, relationship, and adventures. They also tend to put up the most flattering images, making sure they’re perfect as they can be.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

Being on the materialistic side of the zodiac, they are the type of people who’ll most likely post luxury items, gifts, or anything they find valuable. Tauruses prefer to be beautifully different, so they’ll make sure that their feeds are “aesthetic goals”. They’re very sensitive too and will most likely delete comments or posts that are bringing negative vibes to them.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

People with a Gemini sign show their artsy, social, funny, and rebellious side– all in one social media profile. You might get confused as to why there’s a dog photo, a rant, and a painting in one feed, but that’s what a Gemini does. They show you the best version of themselves in every spectrum.

Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

It’s quite a rollercoaster ride when looking at a Cancer’s social networking profile. They tend to share ‘happy’ quotes and then the next day, they just turn full emo and share ‘no one saves you’ posts. They also use their social media profiles to share their passion as well as their beliefs.

Also, cancers love going back to the past, so expect a few #throwbackthursdays from their accounts.

Leo (July 23rd – August 22nd)

Leos are social butterflies, and it includes their social presence online. They’re pretty much active on every social media app you can imagine– sharing memes, events, and their other adventures. They also have a lot of #groupies as they make friends as quicker than any zodiac sign.

Virgo (August 23 -September 22)

They want it to be perfect. Whether it’s a text, photo, or video, they make sure that it’s going to be like this: Captions shouldn’t have typos on it. Photos should be flawless. Videos should be well-edited.

They also use social media to express themselves more. Instead of memes, they most likely post about their travels, food, and their other adventures. This is why looking at a Virgo’s profile is such an aesthetic experience.

Libra (September 23 -October 22)

Librans tend to care about their image–a lot. But this is mostly on personal interactions and not virtual ones. That’s why their social media aren’t as polished at all. They tend to be stuck between ‘should I post this or nah’.

And because they have such a good image in person, they don’t need to impress people as much though their social media accounts. They still get followers without trying– they’re that likable.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)

Their feeds are pretty much mixed up. There are some emotional moments here, some romantic posts there, and some family events on the other end. They tend to post their families and friends, as well as their adventures with them. When you matter to a Scorpio, expect that your photo is shared at some point.

Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)

Checking an account from a Sagittarius can be an entertaining or disappointing experience. If it’s entertaining, expect a whole lot of fun– photos with funny captions, quirky travel shots, and sarcastic rants. It can be disappointing though as some Sagittarius don’t post as much. It’s because they can’t keep up with their actual lives that they’ve given up posting about it.

Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)

They’re pretty workaholic, so you don’t see them posting around their social media accounts, but when they do, they ensure it’s like-worthy.

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

They post anything they feel like posting. Funny yet controversial quote? Shared. A snippet from a daring photoshoot? Uploaded.

They’re the type of people who also share a lot to show that they’re okay. They may be crumbling inside, but they would rather share a meme than contacting someone that could help them on messenger.

Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

They work on making their visual posts artsy and aesthetic but they’re not sure what to use so they post their photos in different styles. You can see them posting photos with pastel hues and vintage filters on the same profile. It can be confusing at times, but that’s how they roll. They also share tons of photos with their family and friends as they value relationships very much.

Note: This is a fun post and what’s included doesn’t necessarily reflect all zodiac signs. Thanks to the following sources for this feature: Elite Daily | Mosh | Thought Catalog

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  • Customize your profile with 6 profile pictures and with the bio.
  • Gain followers with photo sharing and video sharing.
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  • Broaden you Social Network Through Group Chat
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